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Jasyn.com’s 3 Year Anniversary

Thursday, May 21st, 2009

OKAY OKAY OKAY! I’m finally updating! Here we go for Jasyn.com 3 Year Anniversary Edition! Can I here a WOOT WOOT?

Sorry again about the long delay, but due to events in the past which I Can’t discuss, it prevented me from doing my updates. But we’re getting back into the swing of things now, and believe me this will be a drama-oozing entry so sit tight.

Well we’ll start where I left off first, after NASCAR Blair and I were talking about her moving in with me. Well the following weekend we got to talking and found out that Blair would not want to have kids, unfortunately we broke up after this news… To tell you the truth I couldn’t blame her for it either, being that she was only 20, she shouldn’t have to want kids already… Well after a few days, we talked about it and she said she actually would like to have kids in the future, so we got back together and started preparations once again…

Well the following week things were going well, and going to my chiropractor appointments 3 times a week, and my fathers birthday was on that Friday the 8th of May… So after dropping Blair off at work, I drove up to North Peoria where I met up with my Parents and brother and gave them 75$ in gift cards, for dinner and a movie [It was mother's day too after all]… But we went out to the Olive Garden and at a very nice dinner and sat down as a family and had a very nice time out… Afterwards we headed to Harkins where we got in to see ‘Star Trek’ the movie… I have to admit that I am not a Star Trek fan AT ALL… but after seeing that movie, I was seriously impresssed with how it all came together… I would definitively recommend this movie either if you’re a fan of the original series or just a fan of good movies… But again sorry for not updating for your birthday, but Happy Birthday Dad!

On the Thursday after the the weekend, as normal, I go play poker with my cousin [that's not the weird thing]… What ended up being weird was that two people out of the blue ended up getting a hold of me via messenger… One in particular was really great, the other I just wanted the throw my cell into the wall and watch it smash into pieces… Well my old friend Jaclyn was online before my poker game and I got to chat with her for a little bit, and it was really great to get her contact information and we’ve been texting and chatting ever since… However on the same night, I couldn’t believe this, but Malibu also messaged me… She wanted to find out how I was doing and what not, however I was really upset and told her that I would never forget her for what she did [If you're that intrested in why you can check out the entry for 7/26/06 and you'd know why]… But I guess you always take the good with the bad…

Well to add more of a dent into my wallet and my sanity, My brothers birthday was on the following Tuesday… So yeah it went my Fathers Bday on the 8th, Mothers Day on the 10th, and my brothers Bday on the 12th… Blair had the day off so she came along too, but earlier that day we got a storage unit for some extra junk, but that’s a story for another day… But for my brothers birthday, we hung out at my parents place and had a really fun pool party… It was nice to swim, have burgers, play pool and ping pong, and just have a great day to relax… However we ended up getting out of there late, and because Blair kinda double booked she had asked to go to her friends after the party… I agreed, even though I was tired and figured it’d be a quick visit… Well after getting there her friend gets her to get into the pool and from there asked her to do something I was not happy about at all… So I wont mention it, because it would embarrass her, but let’s just say it really put things in perspective…

Well that night I did not get to sleep until almost 6AM, mainly going over the events in my head, but mainly I came up with this… She’s 20… She’s still young and wants to party and do crazy things and have fun… and Me, I’m in a different place, I’m ready to settle down, start a family, get a house and move on with my life… I shouldn’t drag her through the dirt and make her miserable in the process… It took some growing up on my part to realize what I was doing… I was taking her youth away from her, and I didn’t have that right to do that or to change who she is… So that Sunday, after she was off work, I ended up breaking it off with her… It was a somber moment, but we both understood the decision… She packed up and moved out to her friends that night…

I would say that I was lonely the past few nights, however I’ve had a ton of support from my friens and family who have checked up on me, or even came over… It’s been a relatively easy breakup considering what I have been thru in the past, I plan on being single for a short time but then get back in the saddle, and I have the perfect girl in mind ;) … But yeah again drama likes to follow me like a starved dog in heat, but I have a feeling I have a really bright future ahead…

So for a 3 year anniversary entry it was kinda of a huge entry that I’ve been delaying for almost a month… But I wouldn’t have it any other way :D … In 3 years that I’ve had Jasyn.com up, I’ve dated 4 different girls, lived in 3 different places, and now up to a total of 122 entries [If you include this one as well]… not to mention 86 pages, 8 Videos and literally over 1000 pictures totaling over 1.2GB of disk space… That’s a lot of Jasyn.com! lol… But aside from all the stats, it has always been a pleasure to have people come in and stop by and read my entries, play the games, even email me! Jasyn.com sure has come a long way from when I started it… now the only thing I can say is that IT’S TIME FOR A BBQ!!! woot!!! That’s right, I’m throwing a Jasyn.com PARTY for my 3 year anniversary and also sorta semi-celebrating my new found singlehood once again… but hey, any excuse for a party! lol… Well I think I kept you long enough, so I’ll bid you a fond farewell and hopefully things are looking up for you as they are for me!

[ 3 Years down! A whole bunch more to go! ]