Archive for July, 2006

LIES AND DECEPTION

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

Okay everyone here’s the scoop… As all of you have been informed previously, I was suppose to become a new father here this month, after the pain, sweat, tears, and blood I have split into being prepared to welcome my son into this world and being able to support him here is a update from the real-life drama known as my life…

As stated in my last entry, I was very upset at my fiancee Malibu… well now everything has fallen into place and the lies finally came to the surface… Well as you all heard, I was expecting to be a father as of July 25; come to find out this will not happen… On Thursday July, 20th; Malibu came to me after visiting the hospital and told me that she miscarried our baby… I was devastated from this news that I could not fathom that this would destroy what I have worked so hard to achieve… After going through all the emotions that comes with the loss of a loved one on Friday I was to pick up my parents from their vacation at the airport… Well we came to the conclusion that this all didn’t seem right, so while on our drive home we decided to pay Malibu’s OB/GYN a visit… While asking basic policies about miscarriages we came to find out that you can’t miscarry at 9 months into the pregnancy, it is a STILLBIRTH… (that was strike 1)… Well again we were in a predicament… So my family and I came up with a plan to trap her, we said we wanted to hold a funeral service for the baby and we needed to have the paperwork of where the baby was going to be… Well Malibu had said that the hospital was going to do the cremation, (hospitals don’t do cremations, Strike 2)…. Well we told Malibu and laid the seed to develop, and told her we needed to go to the hospital and get those papers… well she had agreed, so we cleared the car and was ready to leave, then she finally let the cat out of the bag…. She said she had something to tell us, that she had miscarried 2 months prior… (Strike 3)… she lied not only to me, but to my family, friends, and even had me lie to my co-workers…. I have never met such a deceitful person in my life… So to finalize this story, I gave her the weekend to get her ass out of my Apartment and out of my life…

Well if you knew Malibu, I’m sorry… I can’t even say that she was ever pregnant… the only reason she said she lied was to keep me all to herself… someone who could put on such a nice front turned out to be one of the most cruel people that I have ever encountered…

So now you all know the story… and how I will probably never fully recover for the loss of a son that possibly never was… Malibu I hate you for what you have done to me and my family, but then again you are the one who screwed up the best possible thing to happen in your life, and that’s called KARMA! And to my Unborn son who might have been, I’m sorry I couldn’t hold you in my arms and raise you to be a good person, just know that your memory will never die.

What have I learned from this? I learned that nothing can come between my family and myself, and that I will never be controlled the way that Malibu had her control over me for the last 2 and a half years… I’m sure I’ll be happy very in my life, just so long as I don’t run into another Malibu in my life…

[Free at Last!]